But with these views aside, there is less meaning around sex in today’s world and therefore it is a lot easier to express oneself sexually. Before there would have been a lot of shame and guilt around this kind of behaviour and even the fear of being rejected, and now this doesn’t have to be the case.
One of the great ways to experiment in the bedroom is the use of sex toys. If you have not been using them already start using them now.
But let me tell you that there are far more safer and natural alternative to Viagra which can help you in ways more than one.
• Run to the refrigerator and start eating, and realize that you are slowly becoming overweight.
Annoying your partner with stupid sex jokes. Hey, if you’re both in the mood for some giggles, then joke away. But if your partner has told you about a need to be held close and loved up, then ditch the dirty jokes as foreplay.
We suggest that sex is good for three reasons. First it will bring you pleasure and that is good. Second, sex actually has moral force when it is an expression of love between two people. Finally sex that becomes a meditation shared by the lovers awakens them to the direct personal experience of the divine within; a direct experience of God-consciousness or enlightenment.
As a spiritual advisor I often council people who have become involved with someone who is married and they want to know if that person is going to leave their mate. As much as we push the vows of marriages aside, our spiritual being understands that a true exchange was made. That is why someone wants to know if their married lover is still in love with their mate. There may not be that passionate love, like in the beginning of a relationship, but there’s still a spiritual bonding that has occurred between married people. Before you become involved was someone who is married start thinking about the spiritual bond they have created with another person. How would you feel if someone tried to break a bond you had created with someone? It would be highly unpleasant. If the married person chooses to leave their partner, then you would be free to have a relationship without breaking a bond. Until then you would always be a tortured soul in this three way relationship.